again...only 3 hours MAT(8a.m till 11a.m)today...so tired...everyday havta wake up so early..but just stand for another 2 month den i'll free..
after went back from skul..den went out again..go till 静思堂dere just wanna to study...i wonder y wanna go till so far just for studying a few books...yeayea...when we reached n bad news cum to us...dere was so crowded n so many student..we cant even find a place to sit..so....we just had our lunch 1st den come back...
after enjoy our lunch n we went back to the place...lagi teruk when we asked this..."够坐吗?我们这么多人.."then a girl reply us lik this.."不够位子,你们分开做就够位咯.."...nearly faint..how to concentrate on my books if faced other unfamiliar ppl n just sit 10cm away from me??..if leng lui den gud lar..but i think no leng lui dere..hehexz...Mei n Wei+their other 2 frens decide to study dere...n Yik+Peng+Dil+Yinze decide to study another place...so we start our plan to go...
finally we got it...went till mcD(bside gurney drive)..find a car park...used up 20 min to find a nice parking place..wohoho~~n we start....
c wat Dil did??he just suck a fries...in...out...in...out....after tat...left right....aikxz...under 18 cannot c this...(very paiseh..capture him horizontally...arr...just turn ur head o moniter 90degree den u will understand...)
in the evening...basketball time..such a bad luck today..not even win a match..end up my right leg wrench...my left leg bleed...n my neck twisted...aikxz...
...get angry with a person..haixz..ask her do a little things oso take so long time..
...geram nia..
...my study group...
ang GUGU..!!c me...??SMILE!!!
just wanna mention here...the sister bside weiwei..she's too good!!i didnt ever seen a staff would "betray" her company lik tat...haha..
...wei wei's turn to shoot...
..but...how many score she got with 1 off target??..(mana tu pergi??)
den now pokok's turn..c now..
c??better than weiwei...at least all on target..
..yinze's turn..boys r much much better than girls..!!
...c??frens 4ever..黑白无常..
after 30 min we enjoy those games...b4 we leave we just appreciate tat staff a lot..she giv us a packet of lantern(~~mayb we too cute~~)..n we hav 10 FREE lanterns!!tat was our main purpose to play the games..hehexz...
n i'm writing sumthing in the heart..
n 13/9 is our day..memoriess..
our lantern...------->i lik it very much!!
3 happy hours gone lik tat..we went home at 0000a.m....n..our time to hav supper...but it's really late...our parents keep calling us..n so..kena shoot!!1st dillan den me..aikxz...no mood to hav my supper too...n just sit on chair n stare...~sit n stare...T.T
**note..!!dammit that fellow human being...wat i'm 韩江走狗!!wat is ur prove to say tat!!wat the F***...dun finger at me n say tat...celaka...ur mother never teach u arr!!i swear i will beat u down if i meet u next time!!I SWEAR!!!
THIS IS INTI FAMILY
MACHAO HAI leh..in this 180 mins...i hav learned wat is "pig" value n oso "..no need to consider"..."pig" value is actually PEAK value..but Koay mention it as PIG...i wonder...
3 hours r really long for 2day...i just sit on my chair n stare on KOAY..c a "lame" face with a "lame" spec teaching a "lame" topic...he just bla bla bla over 3 hours non-stop..n don't hav even a drop H2O in his month...must salute him...
izit terrible water flood??its because the paip leaking at the roof...朋友当然不是玻璃做的，但是有许多人总是把朋友当做玻璃，小心翼翼，恐怕把朋友碰坏了。所以有时候，明明对朋友很不满，却也不敢表达出来。害怕一旦表达了不满，就会发生冲突；一旦发生冲突，就会伤害感情；一旦伤害感情，就会失去这个朋友，为了一件小事失去一个朋友，太不值得了，于是就忍耐朋友的冒犯，然后，偷偷的在肚子里生气。
一个大学里的女孩子说，她的好朋友特不像话，这个朋友在大学四年，几乎从来不打水，都是让她替她打；而且这个朋友还经常在大庭广众中，把它告诉她的悄悄话说出来；她很希望这个朋友有一天能意识到不应该这样做。但是这个粗心的朋友却一点改变的迹象都没有。
“你是怎样对待她的这些行为的呢？”
“我能怎么样？我假装不在意。”
“那么她怎么知道你不高兴呢？”
“她应该知道呀？”
“你认为她有特异功能吗？知道你在想什么？既然你做出不在意的样子,她当以为你不在意；既然她以为你不在意，当然她也就不会改了。”
“我知道我应该表达自己的情绪，但是，我害怕她生气，害怕影响我们的友谊。虽然她有些不好的地方。为了这些事情失去一个朋友不值得。所以我就认了。”
之所以有这样的想法，是因为他们都对友谊有一种很美好的期待：希望朋友最好永远没有争吵，没有愤怒，永远互相理解。在他们的心目中，一旦出现了冲突就意味着友谊破灭。因而，他们只好回避冲突，结果反而让自己和对方之间都不愉快。
其实，并不是发生了冲突友谊就只好告终一条路。因为我们还有“和解”的技巧可用。友谊是一幅双方共同描绘的图画，当画出了什么问题，和解就好似我们手里的像皮或者刮刀，那么画错了一笔就意味着这幅画要作废。有了橡皮和刮刀，你的画就可以继续画下去。
为什么有些人把朋友当做玻璃一样，不敢去碰，最重要的原因，就是他们不会是用橡皮和刮刀，甚至他们不曾意识到有橡皮刮刀这类东西存在。他没的友谊就像玻璃，一旦破了，只能抛弃。所以他们只好小心翼翼，在这个过程中，自己被压抑着，怎么能感到快乐呢？
因此，和解是交友中的必须学习的技巧。如果你懂得如何和解，在交往中，你就有了更大的自由。你会敢于表达自己对朋友的意见，敢于坚持自己，敢于冒产生冲突的危险。因为你知道，即使友谊一时受到伤害，你也有办法消除这个后果，让友谊恢复到从前。
和解是非常简单的，它是僵持后你主动说的一句话，是你错之后送他一只黄玫瑰，是一个友好的微笑，是一个小礼物...只要你们真的有友谊存在，和解就这样完成了。
不会和解的人，害怕表达对朋友的意见，结果纵容了朋友的缺点，这样维持的友谊是不牢靠的，总有一天会维持不下去。而恰恰是不怕冲突的人，及时把不满表达出来，通过交流解决了朋友间的不和谐，才会有真正长久的友谊。
毕竟，朋友不是玻璃做的，如果有一个朋友真的想玻璃一样，不许你碰一下，这样的朋友破了就破了吧....
by YIK
